Understanding the Prophet's Life
Difficult Patience
The degree of
difficulty in abstaining from some things depends on the strength of
one's motive and one's ability to do the action in question. Whoever has
no motive to kill, or steal, or drink alcohol, or whatever, and at the
same time is not able to do it, will find it very easy to exercise
patience in abstaining from those things. Whoever has a strong motive to
commit a wrong action and has the means to do so, will face great
difficulty in exercising enough patience to abstain. Therefore, it is
very difficult for a ruler to refrain from committing injustice and
oppression, and it is difficult for a young man to refrain from
fornication, and it is difficult for a rich man to refrain from pursuing
physical desires and pleasures.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) is reported to have said: "Allah will commend a young man who never behaved in an ignorant way."
[Ahmad] In another hadith, he referred to those who will be shaded in
the shade of Allah's throne for their perfect patience - such as the
patience of an absolute ruler in being just in all situations,
regardless of his own feelings, and the patience of a young man in
worshipping and obeying Allah and suppressing his own whims and desires,
and the patience of the man who stayed in the mosque, and the patience
of the man who gives sadaqah in keeping his sadaqah secret, and the
patience of a man who resists the temptation of a woman of beauty and
high status, and the patience of two men who meet for the sake of Allah
and part for the sake of Allah, in keeping their relationship for the
sake of Allah, and the patience of one who weeps out of fear of Allah,
in keeping that secret and not telling others about it. All of these are
among the most difficult types of patience. Therefore, the punishment
of an old man who commits adultery, a king who tells a lie and a poor
man who is arrogant is more severe, because it is easy for them to keep
away from such wrong actions, and does not require much in the way of
patience. Their attitude indicates that they are wilfully rebelling
against Allah.
Compiled From:
"Patience and Gratitude" - Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyyah, pp. 37, 38
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