Everyone is doing more.

Do you ever start to think everyone is doing more than me? I mean good deeds whether it be at home or in the community. I talked to a woman last night who said she makes her own baby food. I did this before for my 5th child but never revisited it with subsequent children. Other people are going to lectures,taking classes,homeschooling for years, cooking from scratch, volunteering etc. It makes me exhausted. I ask myself am I doing enough and what's really important? I know I could be doing more, but what? I know that some things don' t matter and won't be asked about on the day of judgement like making baby food or cooking so I can scratch those off my list but I worry about other things like am I giving my kids a good islamic education. I know I'm not because I don't have the experience and knowledge to do things like teach them quran. Going to conferences is out of the question right now with a baby and I do listen to cds and online but then knowledge must be implemented.  I hate this coasting feeling. I want to feel like part of something dynamic and I'm tired of the resistance from other muslims. I know I need to go to the next level, I've done it before but I'm stymied about how to get there under my present circumstances. Every blogger that is so inspiring must have started with baby steps but we never hear about that because they come on the scene full blast. Of course you can't take the first step if you are the type to be bogged down by laziness and procrastination and if you are read.this. Sometimes we need a mentor and that's something hard to find especially for converts who have no muslim family. Where am I going with this post? Not sure but I feel lost at sea and need to find my bearings. Advice?

Learn to Swim!

I mentioned it last year and I'll mention it again this year, learn how to swim! According to this article 20% of immigrants don't know how to swim. Even in countries that have water all around them I noticed that the women mostly cannot swim. When asked why they said it was something guys do, not girls. Why? Swimming is a life skill. It should be a must in every home that all members learn how to swim. Safety is so important too such as wearing a lifejacket while boating. You never know when something can go wrong. Take a first aid course too and learn how to do CPR. Its sad to note that the majority of people who died during the Tsunami were women because they were never taught to swim. Please sign yourself and your family up for swim lessons, boating lessons and cpr. You might save a life and that's like saving the whole world.

UK-Verbal attacks on Malay Muslims

I found this article in another blog. I've heard a lot about how the English treat muslims in that country but this is the first time I've heard it related to Malays. I'm sad to hear that they are experiencing these problems and hope things will get better but if not then come to Canada to study. I've never heard of anyone from Malaysia being bothered here. I think its related to the economy and the overcrowding and high cost of living there. Whenever English people come here they are dazzled by all the space we have here and the low cost of housing in comparison to back home.

Children of the Corn

To keep the kids busy this year I've enrolled them once again in the summer reading program which includes lots of activities like making flower baloons and winning prizes. Tim Horton's is offering free swimming at the pool once again and even the municipality did twice too because of the heat wave. As for dd2(18) and ds2(13) they are doing corn detasseling. This of course pays much better than my son's newpaper job but its temporary so he's going to take advantage of it as long as the season lasts which is pretty short, about a few weeks. This is the 4th yr dd2 has done it and the first year for ds2. I've never tried it myself because I never grew up in this area and in fact never even heard of it till we moved down south.

My trip to Manitoulin-Part One

At the end of June we went on vacation to Manitoulin Island; the largest freshwater island in the world! We travelled up the coast of Ontario all the way to the tip until we reached Tobermory. Then we took a ferry to Manitoulin Island. The trip was long and the ferry ride was 2 hours but they had a children's play area and a restaurant (nothing halal though really) and a gift shop where we bought two cups. The play area had toys for the little kids and arcade games for the older kids. You could also go outside and view the beautiful vistas and even go on top. It was very windy on some parts of the boat though. My kids thought the ferry was a blast.We forgot the camera in the car though and once its parked you can't go back to get anything.

Storage and home decorating

Lately I've been thinking about these two things. I just bought wooden hangers which have holes in them to hang up scarves; what a great invention. Also milk bag organizers for the fridge. I got these from a store called solutions in the GTA. Never seen anything like these around these parts that's for sure. But now my mind had moved on to something that's been bothering me for years. I want my windows to have privacy but want to let in the light. For some reason I just don't trust shears but one person swears by lace ones. What do you think? I've been looking at window wallpaper which lets in the light but gives you privacy and also roller blinds. Shears would be the cheapest  idea but which ones can I trust? I have issues with the neighbours so this is a big problem.

Games in the car

We used to have a van with a built-in dvd player, ahh the good old days. These days we have to think of other ideas to entertain ourselves (besides poking each other).  Yesterday my second son (13) and I played bet you don't know how to say this word in malay. Yes its lots of fun for us. I learned a little malay from a book and tape before we went to Malaysia in 2000 and also knew some random words dh would use sometimes with the kids plus some kind malay sisters taught me a bit over the internet plus I learned quite a bit in the 4 months I stayed in Malaysia including my handy dandy dictionaries. My son also learned a bit in some of these ways including his recent trip to Malaysia for 5 weeks. So it was quite funny to stump each other.  A lot of our knowledge overlaps but he didn' t know the word for shoe (kasut) or for ear or nose or dishes, lol. He stumped me with tomorrow, wood, the days of the week and watch ( I guessed waktu but that's time). Can your kids speak their father tongue? What ways do you use to learn the language of the fatherland?

One Year Anniversary!!!!

So I've been blogging for a whole year today, masha Allah. Here is my first post. In fact I had four posts that day. What's changed? Hmm..well I'm still in a small town, still have 10 kids. The main change was I began homeschooling and I started wearing jilbab. I also started a book club online here and did some giveaways as well. The best thing about blogging this year though was meeting all of you and being inspired to be a better muslim. So many people have reached out to me and kept me company this year (hey 27 followers! 44 readers), alhumdullilah. What's interesting to see is the reason people come to my blog. My two most popular posts are Stones into Schools and Muslim Home Decorating. I wasn't expecting that at all. Insha Allah my posts have been of some use to you. I know they've kept me sane and motivated. What will the new year hold? With Ramadan just around the corner be sure to read Ameena's Ramadan Diary with me and hey don't be a stranger! I love your comments. Peace be with you, my devoted readers. :)

Match the book to the kid

This is a great site;bookadventure.com. Simply choose your child's grade level and their interests and books are selected to match. I tried it out for my daughter and found it funny when some of the matches were actually books she's already read, so this is a good tool for finding the perfect book. One glitch though; all the holiday books are Christian.

Al Sharifa (Veilkini) Bathing Suit Test Drive

I just got back from a wonderful vacation on Manitoulin Island and got to test drive my new AlSharifa bathing suit. There are so many pros to this bathing suit. One it looks so sporty; one kid asked me if it was my wetsuit. So people get that its a bathing suit unlike my old bathing suit which people thought were regular clothes. The stripe on the side also adds to this affect. Dh said it looked like I was in the Olympics. Two the hood is attached. With my old bathing suit the hood was a separate piece and kept coming out from my neck line. Three it is quick drying especially the top. Four it is thicker than my old bathing suit which is better for modesty of course. Five the pant legs never lift up like my old bathing suit which I had to add weights to (I'm not kidding). Six the shirt doesn't ride up because there are ties on the side of the shirt which can be attached to the loops on the sides of the pants. This gives you piece of mind while swimming. Seven; the colours are so beautiful and there are so many to choose from. I chose the blue and pink one. Seven; there are three styles to choose from. What I would improve in the bathing suit though is to make the top even looser or add some cloth to drape over the chest area. Also the pants at the calf tend to cling a lot so if there was a way to change that then that would be really useful. I highly recommend this suit and if you want one then order one here and use the code shoe10 to get a 10% discount.

Stitched with love

My daughter recently made me a nice long shirt from a pattern which I picked out that she lengthened. I also chose the material. I love how it turned out. Thanks so much honey. My friend also sewed something for me. Upon seeing my jilbab which I recieved from a reader she said she could make me one just like it and that I should go get some suiting material at Fabricland which was on sale. I got the material for $3 a metre. I love the colour of the material; all the other colours were dark like black and navy blue. I'm so grateful for these handmade clothes which were made with love. Alhumdullilah.

Going away plaque

My second son's friend is moving away to another city so my son decided to do an acrostic for him. He made it on microsoft word, printed it out in colour and framed it.