Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Bits and peices.
I just finished reading The Happiness Project and thought I'd share this video about making 3 friends which is like asking me to find a needle in a haystack. I also want to share something else with you. I recently talked to my brother, the older one and he told me to watch a show called Fat,Sick and Almost Dead. I can't seem to find it as a free documentary online nor at my library nor at the local video store. I hope I can find it somewhere! It looks very interesting. Finally I've discovered that there is such a thing as exercise videos without music. This one, Oxycise even has landscape backgrounds. So get out there, make some friends, drink some vegetable/fruit juice and get some exercise.
Thursday, November 24, 2011
You Made It to the Other Side
Life is strange. You dream about making it to the other side and after years you are there but no one told you there wouldn't be anyone there with you. You change your life so much that no one can recognize you or sync with you and no one is like you on the other side either. You have Allah but as for people, not so much. Your life is better in so many ways and yet there is no one to share that with. What a paradox! You don't long to go back because you remember how bad it was but can't even comfort yourself thoroughly with the present. I think there is no other side really on this earth but only in Jannah or else we'd see the fruits of our labours or maybe we are so close to the end that this is what it looks like...a true stranger in the dunia.
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
10th Anniversary RIS.....who's all coming?
Out of 9 RIS conferences, I've been to only 3, but hey that's one third of the time, so that's pretty good eh? I know some people can't afford it and I notice they have tickets for people that need them and you can donate to that worthy cause too. Are any of you going? I intend to and dd2(19) will be coming too insha Allah. Ds1(26) and dd1(24) are not too sure yet. DS2(15) wants to come too this year which will be his first time although he has been to the ISNA conference before with ds3(13) as well. Check out the link here.
What I'm reading ...
I've been catching up on a lot of books I borrowed from the library and am still doing so and there are still books to get to from my own book club here. I've finished reading In the Land of Invisible Women which I was surprised that my library even had so I grabbed it. Out of so many accounts of going to hajj (that is just part of the book) this is the one that inspires me the most to go. I like how she compliments Malaysian women so often in the book too. This is a pretty long book but will give you lots to think about.
Right now I am reading The Happiness Project. So far its kind of boring but I will continue. I also have to finish This Book is Overdue (yes I see the irony). Then there is Shanghai Girls written by Lisa See who also wrote another book I just read called Snowflower and the Secret Fan which is also a movie out on dvd now. This author is part Chinese and did so much research for this book in China and she is a captivating storyteller as well.After these I intend to read The Virgin Cure by Amy Mckay since I loved her last novel so much; The Birth House.
What have you been reading lately?
Right now I am reading The Happiness Project. So far its kind of boring but I will continue. I also have to finish This Book is Overdue (yes I see the irony). Then there is Shanghai Girls written by Lisa See who also wrote another book I just read called Snowflower and the Secret Fan which is also a movie out on dvd now. This author is part Chinese and did so much research for this book in China and she is a captivating storyteller as well.After these I intend to read The Virgin Cure by Amy Mckay since I loved her last novel so much; The Birth House.
What have you been reading lately?
Friday, November 18, 2011
Friday Nasihah
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Friday, November 11, 2011
Friday Nasihah - Social Jihad
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Wednesday, November 9, 2011
The Nature Principal
Ever notice how some things keep popping up in your life? First I read this excellent post about Richard Louv's other book Last Child in the Woods on this blog and then in the mail I got my issue of Paradise Found from the Royal Botanical Gardens here in Ontario, Canada which mentions his second book The Nature Principal. The author is also going to be making an appearance at RBG this month. I've yet to read either of these books but you'd be preaching to the choir anyway. The sad thing in southern Ontario is that so much of the forests have been chopped down for farming and cities that it is a little depressing no make that a lot depressing and its hard to connect with nature. Northern Ontario where I grew up is awesome though. I try to get my kids into nature but its not enough by any stretch and in no way compares with my upbringing. I believe its a need for humans to commune with nature and get closer to our creator and we do a disservice to ourselves by shaving the trees off our landscapes and continuously building without any thought to this or to the future of our children and grandchildren.
15 Reasons Not to Waste Your Life
Here is a great article from SoundVision. Take heed.
The following words of wisdom will help us appreciate how the most productive and influential leaders and scholars of Islam valued time.
1 Time can't return. Whatever time passes by will not return and cannot be replaced.
Imam Ibn al-Jawzi used to say, "The breaths of man are his steps to death!". Moreover, Imam Ash-Shafiee would say, "Time is like a Sword. Cut it (wisely), before it cuts you!" Therefore, kill your time productively, before it kills you!
2 Boxes are sealed. A teacher used the following analogy of boxes: Each hour is like a box that is sealed and placed in a shelf. On the Day of Judgement, these boxes (24 boxes/per day) will be opened and their contents will be displayed to us.
If we filled each hour of our day in life with good deeds, we will rejoice. If we filled these hours with useless amusements and sins, we will regret to see the contents of the boxes on that Day. How we fill them these 24 boxes every day is our choice. Only we have control over it. Once they are sealed as the day ends, only Allah has the keys to unlock them on the Day of Judgment.
3 The most priceless possession of man: life itself. An Imam used to remind his students, "Time is not just money. It is more expensive than gold, diamonds and pearls. Time is life itself!"
Hassan al Basri: "O son of Adam! You are but a bundle of days. As each day passes away, a portion of you vanishes away." Can we afford to lose a portion of our body or soul everyday to hellfire through wastage of time on useless and un-Islamic things?
4 Accountability of youth and life. We will be asked about our youth and life on the Day of Judgment, both of which are related to time.
The Prophet, peace be upon him, warned us, "Man shall not be let go or discharged on the Day of Judgement until he has been questioned about FOUR things:
Tips on How to be Ultra Productive
15 Reasons Not to Waste Your Life!
by Sound Vision Staffwriter
We all feel bad "wasting" time. We realize time spent on trivial things makes us lazy and unproductive. However, many of us fail to visualize the long-term consequences of killing time on futile matters, both in this world and the world that awaits us.The following words of wisdom will help us appreciate how the most productive and influential leaders and scholars of Islam valued time.
1 Time can't return. Whatever time passes by will not return and cannot be replaced.
Imam Ibn al-Jawzi used to say, "The breaths of man are his steps to death!". Moreover, Imam Ash-Shafiee would say, "Time is like a Sword. Cut it (wisely), before it cuts you!" Therefore, kill your time productively, before it kills you!
2 Boxes are sealed. A teacher used the following analogy of boxes: Each hour is like a box that is sealed and placed in a shelf. On the Day of Judgement, these boxes (24 boxes/per day) will be opened and their contents will be displayed to us.
If we filled each hour of our day in life with good deeds, we will rejoice. If we filled these hours with useless amusements and sins, we will regret to see the contents of the boxes on that Day. How we fill them these 24 boxes every day is our choice. Only we have control over it. Once they are sealed as the day ends, only Allah has the keys to unlock them on the Day of Judgment.
3 The most priceless possession of man: life itself. An Imam used to remind his students, "Time is not just money. It is more expensive than gold, diamonds and pearls. Time is life itself!"
Hassan al Basri: "O son of Adam! You are but a bundle of days. As each day passes away, a portion of you vanishes away." Can we afford to lose a portion of our body or soul everyday to hellfire through wastage of time on useless and un-Islamic things?
4 Accountability of youth and life. We will be asked about our youth and life on the Day of Judgment, both of which are related to time.
The Prophet, peace be upon him, warned us, "Man shall not be let go or discharged on the Day of Judgement until he has been questioned about FOUR things:
1- with regard to his Life: how did he spend it?
2- with regard to his Youth: in what ways did he expend it?
3- with regard to his Wealth: where did he earn it from and what did he spend it on?
4- with regard to his Knowledge: what use did he put it to?"
(Al-Bazzar and At-Tabarani)
5 Better to be stingy with wasting time. Hassan al Basri, a renowned follower of the Companions, once said, "I have lived with a people who were more stingy with their time than you people are with your money."
6 Idle Person: A sign of Allah's dislike. Imam Ibn Qayyim stated, "One of the many signs that one is disliked by Allah is the wasting of his or her time." Allah allows a person who is neglectful of His message to be involved in activities that are worthless.
7 Disrespect to Time. Productive Muslims of the past would consider it disrespect to time, if they spent a day without doing any thing beneficial to their community or to themselves. One of them would say, "I do not regret anything as much as I regret a day in which my good actions have not increased."
8 Procrastination and Laziness are dangerous! We are not sure whether we will live until tomorrow to be able to do something good. Even if we live till tomorrow, are we certain that there won't be any obstacles in carrying out that action. Why putt off something good to an abyss of uncertainty? If we procrastinate and waste time today, what will motivate us to spend time productively tomorrow?
9 Ungratefulness to Allah's gift. Leisure and spare time are blessings from Allah which we grossly undervalue today. As the Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, reminded us, "Good health and spare time are two of the blessings of Allah with respect to which many people are deceived." (Al-Bukhari)
10 Lose time, Lose peace. Some pious scholars used to say that those people who kill their time in unproductive ways would lose peace and serenity from their hearts. They would be so overwhelmed with work deadlines and harmful amusements of this life that they would rarely have time to spend with their family, in remembering Allah, and on causes that matter- the real source of tranquility or sakina in life.
11 Ready for tomorrow? Let's remember the old Muslim adage, "Work for your world as if you are going to live forever and work for your hereafter as if you are going to die tomorrow."
12 Productivity shouldn't die with our death. We should not miss any opportunity to do a good deed even if the world is ending. We are asked to be productive and optimistic even in times of crisis and chaos.
Prophet Muhammad said, "If the day of judgement is about to happen and one of you has a seedling in his hands, he should go ahead and plant that before he is overwhelmed by the day." (Hadith)
13 Return Allah's Trust. Time is a trust from Allah, it is our responsibility to use it in the most effective way pleasing to Allah. We all know how difficult and embarrassing it is to face someone, for instance our parent or teacher, after we break their trust by disobeying their instructions. How would we face Allah if we break His trust?
14 Being Productive is Sunnah (Prophetic tradition). As the Prophet advised us, "Every day, for every joint in the body a person should perform a charity; reconciling between two brothers is charity; helping somebody lift his baggage is charity; every step you take towards Salaah is charity; and every time you remove something harmful from the way is charity. (Bukhari and Muslim). This is how the Prophet, peace be upon him, encouraged us to fill our time with such productive acts.
15 Prophet's Time Management: This is how Prophet Muammad, peace and blessings buwould plan his day:
- He would divide his day into three parts: (1) for his family, (2) for spirituality and Ibadah (worship), usually a time in seclusion at night, and (3) for personal and social affairs (majority of this time would be spent dealing with people's problems, overseeing, educating, and mobilizing his community).
6 Idle Person: A sign of Allah's dislike. Imam Ibn Qayyim stated, "One of the many signs that one is disliked by Allah is the wasting of his or her time." Allah allows a person who is neglectful of His message to be involved in activities that are worthless.
7 Disrespect to Time. Productive Muslims of the past would consider it disrespect to time, if they spent a day without doing any thing beneficial to their community or to themselves. One of them would say, "I do not regret anything as much as I regret a day in which my good actions have not increased."
8 Procrastination and Laziness are dangerous! We are not sure whether we will live until tomorrow to be able to do something good. Even if we live till tomorrow, are we certain that there won't be any obstacles in carrying out that action. Why putt off something good to an abyss of uncertainty? If we procrastinate and waste time today, what will motivate us to spend time productively tomorrow?
9 Ungratefulness to Allah's gift. Leisure and spare time are blessings from Allah which we grossly undervalue today. As the Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, reminded us, "Good health and spare time are two of the blessings of Allah with respect to which many people are deceived." (Al-Bukhari)
10 Lose time, Lose peace. Some pious scholars used to say that those people who kill their time in unproductive ways would lose peace and serenity from their hearts. They would be so overwhelmed with work deadlines and harmful amusements of this life that they would rarely have time to spend with their family, in remembering Allah, and on causes that matter- the real source of tranquility or sakina in life.
11 Ready for tomorrow? Let's remember the old Muslim adage, "Work for your world as if you are going to live forever and work for your hereafter as if you are going to die tomorrow."
12 Productivity shouldn't die with our death. We should not miss any opportunity to do a good deed even if the world is ending. We are asked to be productive and optimistic even in times of crisis and chaos.
Prophet Muhammad said, "If the day of judgement is about to happen and one of you has a seedling in his hands, he should go ahead and plant that before he is overwhelmed by the day." (Hadith)
13 Return Allah's Trust. Time is a trust from Allah, it is our responsibility to use it in the most effective way pleasing to Allah. We all know how difficult and embarrassing it is to face someone, for instance our parent or teacher, after we break their trust by disobeying their instructions. How would we face Allah if we break His trust?
14 Being Productive is Sunnah (Prophetic tradition). As the Prophet advised us, "Every day, for every joint in the body a person should perform a charity; reconciling between two brothers is charity; helping somebody lift his baggage is charity; every step you take towards Salaah is charity; and every time you remove something harmful from the way is charity. (Bukhari and Muslim). This is how the Prophet, peace be upon him, encouraged us to fill our time with such productive acts.
15 Prophet's Time Management: This is how Prophet Muammad, peace and blessings buwould plan his day:
- He would divide his day into three parts: (1) for his family, (2) for spirituality and Ibadah (worship), usually a time in seclusion at night, and (3) for personal and social affairs (majority of this time would be spent dealing with people's problems, overseeing, educating, and mobilizing his community).
Tips on How to be Ultra Productive
- Write down what needs to be accomplished – Use paper, not mind to store this info. Leave your brain for ideas and thinking. Reduces stress.
- Break tasks down into the smallest unit possible – Determine the next action step. Start Now!
- Set Milestones & Reward yourself – Let others know about your deadlines to hold yourself accountable
- Prepare your environment for productivity
- Use your most productive hours for your most important tasks.
- Start with the quickest/easiest tasks first – If something takes 2-5 minutes to complete, do it right away.
- Only work on one task a time - no emailing, MSN messenger, or calling.
- Organize life on a daily and weekly basis - Treat each day as unique.Plan similar activities around the same time/on same days
- Carve out time for non-urgent activities- Check your emails/voice messages 3 times a day. Fix time for regular chores.
- Be flexible- Be willing to accommodate unexpected things for others and for Allah. Learn to negotiate with yourself.
Monday, November 7, 2011
Eid Mubarak
Eid Mubarak, Selamat Hari Raya Aidil-adha !
How was your first day of Eid? Our family went to the masjid for the prayers but ds1 and dd1 were overseas and dd2 was out of town so we missed them. This year like last year we were all matchy-matchy. After the prayer we traveled to another city to the grand opening of my friend's halal slaughterhouse. There we enjoyed a bbq and a bouncy castle and most importantly the company of many wonderful convert friends and their families under a big tent. Then we picked up dd2 and were on our way to GTA for a Malaysian/ Singaporean open house. So in one day we celebrated eid in 3 places! Today was quite boring but alhumdullilah for yesterday. May Allah bless all the Muslims in all 3 places and around the world. Amin.
Saturday, November 5, 2011
Pomegranate Stew
I made this Iranian stew finally, its been on my list of things to make for a long time. I really liked its subtle, sweet flavour. I halved the amount of pomegranate juice to save money and used water for the second half but if I make it again I will use the full amount insha Allah to improve the taste.
Ingredients
- 2 tablespoons olive oil
- 1 1/2 pounds chicken legs, cut up
- 1 white onion, thinly sliced
- 1/2 pound walnuts, toasted and finely ground in a food processor
- 1 teaspoon salt
- 4 cups pomegranate juice
- 1/2 teaspoon cardamom (optional)
- 2 tablespoons sugar (optional)
Directions
- Heat olive oil in a large skillet over medium heat. Place chicken and onions in skillet, and cook 20 minutes, stirring occasionally. Mix in pureed walnuts, salt, pomegranate juice, and cardamom. Bring to a boil. Reduce heat to low, cover, and simmer for 1 1/2 hours, stirring occasionally. (If the sauce becomes too thick, stir in 1/4 cup warm water.) Mix in sugar, adjust seasoning, and simmer 30 minutes more.
Friday, November 4, 2011
When Life give you soda water.....
Make sangria! I bought soda water intending to make this recipe but after reading all the instructions I decided to ditch it. I had just been reading Sisters Magazine (August edition) and came across a recipe that needed soda water. It was fruity sangria. I didn't have all the ingredients so I adapted it. I did have grape juice though ( you will need 2 L), I used Welch's which is my favourite, then I had 1 L of soda water, then slices of mandarin oranges, I didn't have lemons or limes but I used lemon juice and because I had no grapes I used cherries. I also had no peaches.Give this a try for eid maybe.
Friday Nasihah
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Thursday, November 3, 2011
Kobo Vox - a better choice for Canadians
Ok, I told you about the Kindle Fire but the streaming it has is only for Americans so even if you cross the border and buy it, you can't get the content. So instead take a look at the Kobo Vox which offers all its contents to Canadians. I don't care for the name of this one but who cares as long as it caters to Canadians..hey we're people too you know. I love how you can talk to other people about the same book...imagine me finally finding people who are reading what I'm reading....oh joy, oh bliss. Ok for Eid I'd rather have a Kobo Vox!
Fundraising For a Muslim Convert -Nov 18-GTA
I just heard about this woman and now I'm reading about her again in the Muslim Review that I got from the bazaar. For those of you in the GTA who can attend this function perhaps you can help this new muslim sister. I will re-print what the Review wrote.
Fundraising Awareness
Please support our sister in medical need. Sr. Nour is a new muslimah that has been afflicted for many years with Temporo-mandibular Joint Disorder (TJD), a painful condition which makes it difficult to eat, sleep or even perform basic tasks. Sr. Nour is scheduled to undergo a surgery in March 2012 in California. This surgery will cost about $80,000 and is not covered by OHIP.
How Can you help? By joining us at TAIMA Indoor Play Centre for a family event. Donate from Allah's bounty that he had entrusted you with,toward her surgery costs.
Family and Kids Event @ TAIMA INDOOR PLAY CENTRE
3450 Ridgeway Drive, Unit 10 Mississauga, On L5L 0A2
Friday November 18,2011 at 6pm-9pm
Adult $25/ Child $10/under 1 yr Free *includes dinner.
Ticket Purchase Deadline - Sat Nov 12
website:http://duas4nour.wordpress.com
For more info please call Khadeeja; 905-804-1420 or Jessica: 905-499-1487
Fundraising Awareness
Please support our sister in medical need. Sr. Nour is a new muslimah that has been afflicted for many years with Temporo-mandibular Joint Disorder (TJD), a painful condition which makes it difficult to eat, sleep or even perform basic tasks. Sr. Nour is scheduled to undergo a surgery in March 2012 in California. This surgery will cost about $80,000 and is not covered by OHIP.
How Can you help? By joining us at TAIMA Indoor Play Centre for a family event. Donate from Allah's bounty that he had entrusted you with,toward her surgery costs.
Family and Kids Event @ TAIMA INDOOR PLAY CENTRE
3450 Ridgeway Drive, Unit 10 Mississauga, On L5L 0A2
Friday November 18,2011 at 6pm-9pm
Adult $25/ Child $10/under 1 yr Free *includes dinner.
Ticket Purchase Deadline - Sat Nov 12
website:http://duas4nour.wordpress.com
For more info please call Khadeeja; 905-804-1420 or Jessica: 905-499-1487
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
A Palace In the Old Village
This is what I'm reading now, its from the library and someone is actually waiting for it. I'm only on page 30 but I really like the style and hope to finish it today. I really should be finishing whoops starting last month's club choice but this is overdue and must be read. Anyone else read this? Its about a father who lives and works in France and wants to go back to Morocco and retire there...and bring his kids. I want to see how the story unfolds.
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
Dua For Entering a City
Here is the dua the Prophet Muhammad (saw) made when entering any town or city. I thought it was very beautiful and its another one that my Quran teacher shared with me.
Upon Entering A City
Upon entering a city, the Prophet (S) recited the following:اللهم بارك لنا فيها, اللهم بارك لنا فيها, اللهم بارك لنا فيها, اللهم ارزقنا جناها, اللهم حببنا الى اهلها وحبب صالح اهلها الينا
'Allahumma bariklaana feeha, Allahumma bariklaana feeha, Allahumma bariklaana feeha. Allahuma arzuqna Janaha, Allahuma habbibna eela ahleeha wa habbib salihee ahleeha eelaina.'
(O Allah, bless us in it. O Allah, bless us in it. O Allah, bless us in it. O Allah, grant us sustenance from its fruits, put our love in the hearts of its people, and put the love of the righteous people in our hearts.) (Attabarani)
'Allahumma bariklaana feeha, Allahumma bariklaana feeha, Allahumma bariklaana feeha. Allahuma arzuqna Janaha, Allahuma habbibna eela ahleeha wa habbib salihee ahleeha eelaina.'
(O Allah, bless us in it. O Allah, bless us in it. O Allah, bless us in it. O Allah, grant us sustenance from its fruits, put our love in the hearts of its people, and put the love of the righteous people in our hearts.) (Attabarani)
November Book Club reminder
Heaven Under Your Feet is the book club choice for this month. Insha Allah all you mothers will join me this month in reading this selection. Everyone else is welcome too. ;)
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